At the beginning of May, we moved Anna to Estes Park (to live with Aaron's parents) to work her dream summer job as a wrangler/trail guide! She was excited to spend her days on the back of a horse in the Rocky Mountains!! It ended up being such a challenging few months. Her boss was verbally abusive to the wranglers, especially Anna, and abused the new horses during "training", refused to hire more help (they had half the number of wranglers they normally staff), and made them all work very long hours with no extra days off. It was a rocky start with her co-workers as well, all of whom came from VERY different backgrounds, but her integrity & kindness earned the respect of every single co-worker by the end of the summer. God really stretched and grew her and I'm really proud of her for fulfilling her commitment to the company (even though no one would have faulted her for quitting under such circumstances). I promised Anna we would come visit her every month, and we got pretty close to that!
At the end of June, for Anna's 19th birthday, we surprised her by bringing Papa & Binga and her 2 best friends along for our monthly-ish trip to visit her. It was so fun and it was just what she needed to keep going!
At the beginning of August, we took a quick trip to see her again. She was so homesick and really struggling with the awful work environment. We kept encouraging her to find the good every day, look for ways to be kind to others, and cling to the Truth of God's word (little did we know how much all of us would need that advice in the weeks to come!!!).
At the end of August, Anna sustained a severe double concussion, just 2 weeks before she was done, when a draft horse kicked a solid steel gate into her head. She had a small cut on her forehead which required 5 stitches. Only by a miracle is she still alive. The force of the kick and the solid gate alone could've killed her, not to mention she could have easily been trampled because she was in the sorting pen when it happened. She was able to get right up and shut the gate and then passed out. Her co-workers sprang into action and carried her to the barn where they stopped the bleeding, but she passed out 2 more times and threw up 7 times by the time they got her to the ER (probably only took 15 minutes from the time it happened to when she was at the ER). I got an unexpected call from Anna at 10:30am but it was a co-worker, letting me know that Anna took a gate to the head, and they had taken her to the ER. She kind of left out a lot of details so I didn't actually know how bad it was. The next week was full of hard. Praise God she did not have a fracture or brain bleed, but the double concussion was so severe. She had no depth perception, so riding in a car was torture especially since she gets car sick in the mountains anyway. She couldn't go up and down stairs. She really couldn't even walk without assistance. I could not go bring her home because she wouldn't have made it down the canyon, let alone an entire 8-hour drive back home. After about a week, it became apparent that she had to come home. She wasn't improving a lot, and she just needed a place that was very familiar and comforting without stress as her brain tried to make sense of everything. She had long- and short-term memory loss, had a very hard time focusing and comprehending and even speaking. Mom, Dad, and I finally drove through the night to go pack up all her stuff (she also took Sadie with her, because Sadie would have literally died of loneliness without Anna) and bring her home. She was in bad shape by the time she finished with a follow-up doctor appointment before she could be released to go home (work comp mess). We gave her some nausea meds and drove halfway home, staying with family. Getting her home went a long way in helping her brain be comfortable enough to start healing, but we're still on the road to healing 7 weeks later.
She still hasn't been cleared to work. She hasn't been able to join the worship team again. She can't ride her horse or start breaking June. She can drive, but not toward evening or after dark because she gets tired and easily confused still. It's so frustrating for her to do nothing but rest. Having to deal with work comp adds another layer to the whole ordeal. Thankfully they have been okay to work with for the most part. She is having progressively worse/more frequent headaches and still has significant short- and long-term memory loss. We are all frustrated with the stall-out in her healing. My brother and sister-in-law recommended a brain therapy place that seems like it would be very beneficial, so she has started that. We are praying that this will help her brain open up those neuropathways and finish up the healing process!
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